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Tips for your first date

Hello Internet Fam

So you read the title and thought this might be useful or not but if it has been a while i would like to give you a few pointers to see if you can make it an success.

Lets get right into it shall we!!

Always be real yes i know sometimes we are afraid to be the real us because we want to make a good impression but being yourself is the best version of you. Dont pressure yourself dont be alluring dont be witty just be you. You have heard the saying first impression matter right so yes make yourself look good but still comfortable, take an outfit that will say you look smart , sexy but nothing revealing and make sure its age-appropriate.

So you dont know if you guys will hit it of or if there will be a spark, well perhaps its your first and last but always be respectful towards your date , show up on time and make sure you give him your undivided attention. If you at a restaurant be polite to the waitstaff use you social etiquette skills be the best version of you.

Dont forget to switch of you cellphone , you would not want every buzz bothering you , so do yourself the favor and let it be so you can enjoy your evening.

Men like to feel that they are in charge so why not let him take the lead. But remember just like you he would be nervous and would not know how to be with you as its the first date. If he wants to pay for the meal let him pay for the meal if its a split bill do the split bill but let him take the lead. Also know to let him follow up after the date not you.

Avoid being decisive yes ladies we do that sometimes but on a first date that is not attractive if your date gives you the option to decide then you do that. Dont go and mmmmmmmm ohhhhhhhhh i dont know and what do you think perhaps you must decide no no no you go and show that man that you can make a wise choice in a damn bottle of wine or a good dessert.

As i said give him your attention so be present show your date that you are interest and listening. Make sure you have a two way conversation , its not about you only. Make sure that you both enjoy the company if not address it perhaps something feels awkward speak up or let him speak up so that both of you are comfortable.

Yes its the first date but try and establish boundaries. You dont have to share your entire life on your first date this is not you getting married right. When or if there is more dates to come there is more to share so keep it open but to a point. Be clear to him about physical boundaries if you dont like something point it out . Tip ladies dont kiss on first date a goodbye hug is more then enough, no sex on first dates ever never never please you need to have your morals and standards besides you want to be open to love and share you body with your life partner not a guy you just met.

If the date goes well let if end smooth be kind appreciate it and if he calls you for another date yes sir but if you didnt like the way it went and he calls girl the best you can do is be honest and just wait for your prince charming. First bad dates dont mean its the end you just wait for the next.

I hope you guys enjoyed this post and that it was helpful, good luck to all still seeking love.

Remember: Just Be Happy

Love M


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